Hoarding, you're not alone

Most hoarders fear that they are alone in their tendency to hold onto things and can feel quite isolated. You may be surprised to know that there are an estimated 150,000 people, living in Australia who are Compulsive Hoarders. This estimate does not include people who are Chronically Disorganised and therefore may be prone to holding onto things for fear of not knowing where anything is!

So why is it that for some of us letting go of things is so very difficult? Take the person who has lost someone close and much loved. To some, if they were to remove the objects that were no longer being worn or used, this could equate to removing that person from their lives altogether. Of course just by decluttering we cannot remove the memory of someone dearly loved and missed, but sometimes in grief we can lose perspective.

On a lighter note, think of the 35 year old woman, who used to need a corporate wardrobe. Her life has changed lately as she has 3 children under 5 and is finding it hard to let go of the old lifestyle, income, wardrobe etc. Donating the 'uniform' is saying goodbye to the way things once were. She doesn't ever want to go back to that way of life as the children are the best thing that has ever happened (especially when they're all asleep and the kitchen is clean). But really, is doing the washing up or vacuuming in fine wool and heels really appropriate for her now?

'The Secret Weapon' (my most excellent assistant) can de-clutter a wardrobe in less than 4 hours, this includes putting outfits together, removing all signs of the 80's & 90's but does NOT include, I'm afraid, any shred of tact whatsoever! This is why 'The Secret Weapon' knows she is not allowed to talk to our dear clients on day 1. And a big NO by the way, you will NEVER know her name, she's mine and I want to keep her :)